Does Love Exist?

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

Shakthi,
inga pothuvaana ellaarukkum idaila naama kaatura anba paththi paesala..

What this topic specifically abt the some people (boy and girl before marriage) involve in the name of love. :P

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tm,

enna relationship aa irunthaalum, ithaan fact.

andhandha nerathula rendu per kitta irupathu love nna andha nerathukku athu unmai. How long it exists between them IS NOT A FACTOR here to be considered to say whether or not love exist. And NOBODY can define any pure love because its "INTANGIBLE"

Divorced pair kitta poi keteenganna, when they cared THE CARE WAS TRUE. andha nerathula adhu pure.

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Pinna illainaa solluvaanga.. :P

The thing is, the ones who said to be in love actually dont care for the other one or their surroundings.. They actually care for themselves... They get happiness while talking to him/her, seeing him/her, touching him/her, etc..etc..etc... ovvorutharukku one or pala requirements :noteeth:


that is why we see cases like....
1. Forget abt ur environment and commit suicide..
2. Ignoring others and running away..
3. Making conditions to live together, either directly or indirectly..
4. If another person with more money / much better looks / etc comes in ur way, forget the before one....
5. If the loved ones
and there are many such things..

That is what happens in majority of the cases.. There could be exceptions.. but only few. :P

So actually there is no love. People think that it is love :froggrin:

P.S : Again i was talking abt the so called love which happens between a boy and girl before marriage :fishgrin:

Thiru

enna thedeernu this kosteen, any problems :lol2:

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Originally Posted by Appu s

TM, still you are diverting the topic,noone here talking about infatuations,hormones surappi and all...hormones marriage aana udana surakkurathu stop aakiduma?
If love is not existing for you guys between a male and female,then what is cooking between them after marriage?

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nee innum poagalayaa.. :lol2:

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Originally Posted by Appu s

Ok if it is the topic i am out here :wave: you cant generalize anything in that...no use of talking....

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

Some one gets addicted to drug like heroin.. some people try to get cured or maintain in that state.. When in that state they dont think abt any others.. extremely selfish... At one stage they die because of this if not cured...

i dont call the drug addict is in love with the drug :wink:

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enna sonaalum, weird example kuduthu :evil: , edakku madakka pesara kuriyoda irukeenga. onnum panna mudiyathu :sigh2:

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ennoada doubts questions ithukellaam bathil solrathilla.. :roll: At least i am trying to come with certain things.. athayum ippadi othukitta enna artham :fishgrin:

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Originally Posted by PARAMASHIVAN

Thiru

enna thedeernu this kosteen, any problems :lol2:

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yeah.. I am in love with Anushkaa.. She is ignoring me :(

ok time to leave for home :boo: Later :wave:

TM :fatigue: :fatigue: you totally diverted it... Ithai vida innum puriyara mathri ezhudha mudiyathu... Love-ye ulagathula kidayathu nnu sonnenga, ippa before marriage-kku maarittenga...thevaiye illama unga vasathikku ippa infatuations pathi pesurenga... inga yarum athai justify panni post pannala.... everyone knows the difference... why you cant answer for after marriage relation? :huh:

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

At least i am trying to come with certain things.. athayum ippadi othukitta enna artham :fishgrin:

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ஒதுகிட்டா or ஒத்துக்கிட்டா :?

tm,

Answer me, is there anything called pure affection? (in terms of paasam, anbu etc i.e not kaadhal)

We cant find PURITY in any kind of emotionally bound relationship. These are tangible , ie cant be measured and keeps changing. Why dont u complain about parents who forget to shower affection to kids or kids who forget to talk few caring words to parents? Or freinds who turn their faces away ? or siblings who curse each other?


If we keep remembering them, all we are left with is negative feelings and then unfortunately we are forced to come to a conclusion there is NOTHING PURE. neither affection or love or lust.

But it did exist when it did. Whether or not it is present now is out of question. Every emotion (anger, lust, love, greed, devotion, depression, happiness) is momentary and fleeting therefore changing with time. But it still does EXIST.

like i said, u are NOT sticking to topic u are deviating to the "IFS AND BUTS " of qualified emotions.

sp akka, ur theory looks like adopted by western culture.... like.... innikku enakku X'a pudichchirukku, so X kooda vaazhurEn.... after few days(or months or years) , X'a enakku pudikkala and Y'a enakku pudichchirukku, so Y kooda vaazhuren....ippadiyE my love getting changing from one person to other person'aa irundhaa, where will it end ?????????

oru vEla namma forefathers(thaaththaa muththaaththa, paatti muppaatti kaalaththu generations) ippadi nenachchu ishtaththukku avanga lifepartner'a maaththittu irundhaa, innikku namma nelama :|

TM :evil:

u r talking about whether love is stupidity or not.. which is debatable.. and most probably I will agree to your viewpoint thr..

but the question here is whether love exists or not.. u r trying to give various other names for that..

as per you : thr is some feeling which is termed as love, but it is not love.. then you have to define what is love as per your viewpoint