Does Love Exist?

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Originally Posted by Punnaimaran

Most of our parents have sacrificed everything for the sake of their children. Till we get married or get employed, we depend on our parents for everything. So they are not sure whether the children are mature enough to take important decisions in life.

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You cannot blame one side generically. I think LM made a very valid point on generalisation which was dismissed rather unfairly.

Anyway, Thiru summA oru social experiment paNNikittirukkAr indha threadla - ipdi sonnA makkaL epdi react paNNuvangannu pArkaradhukku.
Thiru, pAmbin kAl pAmbariyum ;-) :lol:

Prasannaa matrum silarin vaendugoalukinanga en Muthan Muthal Kaathal anubavam :oops:

So Called Love Story 2000 :noteeth:

College mudichittu vaelayila illaatha samayam. (Engineering mudichaachu, Periya companies ellaam veetu kathava thatti vaela kodupaangannu ninaichittu job application kooda poatthilla. :sigh2: Ithukkum Final sem la Oru subject la arrear vachchavan :rotfl2: ) Chennai la irukiratha vida Job oppurtunities Mumbai la easy ngrathaala Mumbai la poi therinjavar veetla Daeraa poataachu.. (Antop Hill, Mumbai, November 1999)

Mumbai ennai vaada thonnai nnu koopttu sila unmaya puriya vachchathu.. Ithu vaelaikaagaathunnu, SSI institute la Java Course join pannaen.. Place : Bandra, Mumbai.

Like in all computer institutes, Java course which is suppose to be completed in 2 months, did not even complete 2 chapters even after 2 months.. It is better to start reading on own.. Computers are there plenty.. In a matter of 3 weeks niraya vishayam kaththukittaachu.. Anga vara other students kku vara doubts, bugs ellaam clear panra job a sambalam vaangaama en self improvement kaaga pannittu iruntha samayam..

March Mid, 2000 one day..
One person to a very sexy girl, showing me: "You can ask him, he may solve your doubts" :mrgreen: Her name starts with R :P In a jeans, a weather Jacket, she sat next to me :redjump: :bluejump: :black_jump: :mrgreen: :noteeth:

Institute la iruntha my Mumbai hansome friends galukku kaathula puga varaatha kura, during her arrivals and her stay and my doubt solving sessions to her :rotfl2:

Java therinji vachikittu nee panra rousu thaanga mudiyalainnu enkitta pulambi theerpaanga :P

For the Records sake, She was the first girl i officially started talking with (well, vayasukku vanthathukku appuram :oops: ) :boo:

Viewers response paarthuttu, To be continued :roll: Kathayila inimae thaan twist ae :think:

True love is between Paramashivan and Parvathi :lol2:

Ippo pothuma, sandaiya niruthungappa :P

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Originally Posted by Sarna

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Originally Posted by Punnaimaran

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Originally Posted by hamid

and on a side note.. when u said .. pethavangala pathi kavala padaama oodi poraangannu.. the basic culprit in most of these cases are the parents (their stupid so-called pride, fear about the soceity).. y not blame them??

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In India, I think the parents' worry is justified. Most of our parents have sacrificed everything for the sake of their children. Till we get married or get employed, we depend on our parents for everything. So they are not sure whether the children are mature enough to take important decisions in life.

But if you say that the children are mature enough, why don't they talk to their parents about their love and convince them? If they do not do this, it either shows that they themselves have doubts about their decision or they don't give a damn for their parents who had brought them up till then.

So in my opinion, the blame lies more on the children.

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

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Originally Posted by hamid

and on a side note.. when u said .. pethavangala pathi kavala padaama oodi poraangannu.. the basic culprit in most of these cases are the parents (their stupid so-called pride, fear about the soceity).. y not blame them??

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In India, I think the parents' worry is justified. Most of our parents have sacrificed everything for the sake of their children. Till we get married or get employed, we depend on our parents for everything. So they are not sure whether the children are mature enough to take important decisions in life.

But if you say that the children are mature enough, why don't they talk to their parents about their love and convince them? If they do not do this, it either shows that they themselves have doubts about their decision or they don't give a damn for their parents who had brought them up till then.

So in my opinion, the blame lies more on the children.

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Thiru,

Please continue :P

Tm enakku sms elaam panni kenjaatha korai...:poke: he wanted few ppl to post "continue"

apram thaan kathaiyai continue pannuvaaram :rotfl2:

tm,

continue :rotfl2: please :)

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

Prasannaa matrum silarin vaendugoalukinanga en Muthan Muthal Kaathal anubavam :oops:

So Called Love Story 2000 :noteeth:

College mudichittu vaelayila illaatha samayam. (Engineering mudichaachu, Periya companies ellaam veetu kathava thatti vaela kodupaangannu ninaichittu job application kooda poatthilla. :sigh2: Ithukkum Final sem la Oru subject la arrear vachchavan :rotfl2: ) Chennai la irukiratha vida Job oppurtunities Mumbai la easy ngrathaala Mumbai la poi therinjavar veetla Daeraa poataachu.. (Antop Hill, Mumbai, November 1999)

Mumbai ennai vaada thonnai nnu koopttu sila unmaya puriya vachchathu.. Ithu vaelaikaagaathunnu, SSI institute la Java Course join pannaen.. Place : Bandra, Mumbai.

Like in all computer institutes, Java course which is suppose to be completed in 2 months, did not even complete 2 chapters even after 2 months.. It is better to start reading on own.. Computers are there plenty.. In a matter of 3 weeks niraya vishayam kaththukittaachu.. Anga vara other students kku vara doubts, bugs ellaam clear panra job a sambalam vaangaama en self improvement kaaga pannittu iruntha samayam..

March Mid, 2000 one day..
One person to a very sexy girl, showing me: "You can ask him, he may solve your doubts" :mrgreen: Her name starts with R :P In a jeans, a weather Jacket, she sat next to me :redjump: :bluejump: :black_jump: :mrgreen: :noteeth:

Institute la iruntha my Mumbai hansome friends galukku kaathula puga varaatha kura, during her arrivals and her stay and my doubt solving sessions to her :rotfl2:

Java therinji vachikittu nee panra rousu thaanga mudiyalainnu enkitta pulambi theerpaanga :P

For the Records sake, She was the first girl i officially started talking with (well, vayasukku vanthathukku appuram :oops: ) :boo:

Viewers response paarthuttu, To be continued :roll: Kathayila inimae thaan twist ae :think:

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Chennai, Bangalore-nnu solliyirunthaale kathai mudivai solliRalaam. Mumbai-nnu vERa sollittaaru TM! ton ton-aa vazinjiruppaaru, muthugukku pinnaala siriyO siri-nnu sirichchittu antha jeans poNNu appiraaNi maathiri padam pOttuttu oru naaL sevittula vitturuppaa! :rotfl3:

Just kidding! Hope TM is sportive enough to allow some ragging!

tm,

adhu en blackjump? :P black jeans pottathaalaiya? :think:

Shakthi :evil: :rotfl2:

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

Chennai, Bangalore-nnu solliyirunthaale kathai mudivai solliRalaam. Mumbai-nnu vERa sollittaaru TM! ton ton-aa vazinjiruppaaru, muthugukku pinnaala siriyO siri-nnu sirichchittu antha jeans poNNu appiraaNi maathiri padam pOttuttu oru naaL sevittula vitturuppaa! :rotfl3:

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chae chae athellaam ellaa kathayilayum varathu...This is dipperent :yes:

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

Just kidding! Hope TM is sportive enough to allow some ragging!

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Of Course.. I would love it :P

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

tm,

adhu en blackjump? :P black jeans pottathaalaiya? :think:

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That represents my Majestic Color :yes:

btw, before marriage i had never used jeans :|

User response naan ethir paarthatha vida niraya irukirathaala ( :think: ) will continue in another few hour :P

These things do happen too. At least, eloping lovers are far better.

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NEW DELHI: The father and uncle of 19-year-old Asha who was tortured to death along with her 20-year-old boyfriend Yogesh Kumar have been arrested after they confessed to the crime, police said on Tuesday, describing the gruesome murders as a case of honour killing.

The couple was found dead on Monday at her uncle's house in Swaroop Nagar in northwest Delhi with multiple stab wounds.

"We arrested the father, Suresh Kumar Saini, and uncle, Om Prakash, late on Monday. During the interrogation, they confessed to the double murder," Pankaj Sharma, the investigating officer, said.

"The two are in police custody now and will be produced in the sessions court in Rohini on Tuesday," he added.

Officials have described it as a case of honour killing as the couple belonged to different castes and Asha's family was vehemently opposed to the match.

"It looks like a case of honour killing. The girl's marriage was fixed with somebody else because she and Yogesh were from different castes," a police official said.

"On Sunday, the girl came to stay at her uncle's house and was assaulted along with her boyfriend and killed by her family," the official added.

Renu, Yogesh's elder sister, said: "Asha wanted to marry my brother but her family forcibly fixed her marriage to somebody else. On an earlier occasion, her mother had come to our place and threatened dire consequences if Yogesh did not stop meeting her."

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http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/a...ow/6049647.cms

TM kantinue kantinue :lol2:

LM, there was a similar story happened in UP a month back, a female journalist killed by her mother since the girl wanted to marry a guy who belongs to a lower caste. :oops:

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Originally Posted by littlemaster1982

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/a...ow/6049647.cms

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I did read about the news this morning. I wonder how "kudumba gauravam" can be saved by committing murder? Definitely such parents are worthy enough to be kicked aside to live life of one's choice.

I would not classify the cult or set of elders, who threaten to commit suicide, to be any different. In my opinion both are equally senseless and cruel in their approach.

TM

your views on

Laila and Majnu
Rome and Juliet

David Beckam and Victoria Beckham :lol2:

In the name of "honour killing". Court ruling on June 15, 2010:

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/...rticle1605082/

How many women have been involved in such killings of the opposite sex? :roll:

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Originally Posted by Appu s

LM, there was a similar story happened in UP a month back, a female journalist killed by her mother since the girl wanted to marry a guy who belongs to a lower caste. :oops:

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http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/a...ow/6049647.cms

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koduma :sigh2: ivangellaam social status kaaga pullaingala peththu poatirupaanga.. :banghead:

PS,
Ippa vaera track la irukaen .. athellaam appuram paarkalaam :roll:

Avan avanuku nadakkum bOthu thAn theriyum. :wink:
Practically speaking 'gouravam' is essential in 21st century.

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

Tm enakku sms elaam panni kenjaatha korai

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http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/a...ow/6049647.cms

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I did read about the news this morning. I wonder how "kudumba gauravam" can be saved by committing murder? Definitely such parents are worthy enough to be kicked aside to live life of one's choice.

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What's worse is the uncle who was a part of this crime, had said he didn't regret one bit for doing this and he would kill them again given a chance :|

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Originally Posted by Kambar_Kannagi

Avan avanuku nadakkum bOthu thAn theriyum. :wink:
Practically speaking 'gouravam' is essential in 21st century.

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At the cost of precious lives?

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Originally Posted by Kambar_Kannagi

Avan avanuku nadakkum bOthu thAn theriyum. :wink:
Practically speaking 'gouravam' is essential in 21st century.

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:o Pulaingala konnuttu entha vithathila gauravam kidaikkuthu?

This has become another Coffee corner thread :shock:

TM pls continue :D

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This has become another Coffee corner thread :shock:

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I thought so too :|

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Originally Posted by Kambar_Kannagi

Avan avanuku nadakkum bOthu thAn theriyum. :wink:
Practically speaking 'gouravam' is essential in 21st century.

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kk,

Can u please elaborate? :)

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

Prasannaa matrum silarin vaendugoalukinanga en Muthan Muthal Kaathal anubavam :oops:

So Called Love Story 2000 :noteeth:

College mudichittu vaelayila illaatha samayam. (Engineering mudichaachu, Periya companies ellaam veetu kathava thatti vaela kodupaangannu ninaichittu job application kooda poatthilla. :sigh2: Ithukkum Final sem la Oru subject la arrear vachchavan :rotfl2: ) Chennai la irukiratha vida Job oppurtunities Mumbai la easy ngrathaala Mumbai la poi therinjavar veetla Daeraa poataachu.. (Antop Hill, Mumbai, November 1999)

Mumbai ennai vaada thonnai nnu koopttu sila unmaya puriya vachchathu.. Ithu vaelaikaagaathunnu, SSI institute la Java Course join pannaen.. Place : Bandra, Mumbai.

Like in all computer institutes, Java course which is suppose to be completed in 2 months, did not even complete 2 chapters even after 2 months.. It is better to start reading on own.. Computers are there plenty.. In a matter of 3 weeks niraya vishayam kaththukittaachu.. Anga vara other students kku vara doubts, bugs ellaam clear panra job a sambalam vaangaama en self improvement kaaga pannittu iruntha samayam..

March Mid, 2000 one day..
One person to a very sexy girl, showing me: "You can ask him, he may solve your doubts" :mrgreen: Her name starts with R :P In a jeans, a weather Jacket, she sat next to me :redjump: :bluejump: :black_jump: :mrgreen: :noteeth:

Institute la iruntha my Mumbai handsome friends galukku kaathula puga varaatha kura, during her arrivals and her stay and my doubt solving sessions to her :rotfl2:

Java therinji vachikittu nee panra rousu thaanga mudiyalainnu enkitta pulambi theerpaanga :P

For the Records sake, She was the first girl i officially started talking with (well, vayasukku vanthathukku appuram :oops: ) :boo:

Viewers response paarthuttu, To be continued :roll: Kathayila inimae thaan twist ae :think:

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Few Days after my intro with R... the same person who had shown myself to R, in similiar manner diverted a guy ( :argh: ) towards me to solve the doubts.. That time only i had noted that aal Kaatti person Properly.. Like in Vaali, It was love at second Sight :wink:
Oh yeah .. She was my first Love :P

First time naan yaen avala sariyaa note pannalainnu ellaarukkum purinjirukkum :fishgrin:

Antha payyana enna noakki vittuttu naan paarthathum chinnathaa Oru Punnagai.. Pachakunnu ava manasula ottikitta.. :P ( naan maththavangala paarthu sirichathukku pazhi vaanganumnu ninaikiravanga manasukullayae sirichikoanga :ashamed: )

Antha rendu paarvai kku munnaala avala naan note pannathilla.. Then i came to know that she joined as a faculty there a week before. :D

She was a faculty, I was a student there.. But for doubts clarification she was pushing people to me. :lol2: Well, she joined for teaching scripting languages like JavaScript, html, etc..

[Her name is Karnan's wife name :P She is not modern like most Mumbai girls.. Romba simple aa iruppaa, Konjam traditional Maharashtrian girl :P ]

For Practice purposes Computers were kept in 2 big cabins separated by a glass window. when she is on the other side, naan avala note panrathum, ava enna note panrathum was continuing for few days :)

Ippadi paarthutae irunthaa enna aagurathu..aduthta step kku poaga vaenaamaannu naan :think:
She itself came to me few days later, asking me to teach Java to her :wink: Karumbu thinga ethukku kooli :boo:

Teaching continued for few days :yakyak: (yethaachum oru nalla bgm/ songs poattu kaetukoanga :lol2: )

Then came a good news which in one way a bad news :sigh2:

Keep Guessing. :roll: . That comes in next Part.. btw what happened to Miss. R ? athuvum aduththa part :noteeth:

kavalai vaendaam rasiga perumakkalae ( :shock: ), eppadiyum aduththa part la mudichiduren :think:

TM, does Kanya akka hub ?

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Originally Posted by Sarna

TM, does Kanya akka hub ?

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No antha thayirathila thaan TM ellam post panuvaaru :lol2:

TM,
indha thread ku vandha purpose vera.

ipo irukara purpose vera....... :D

Nalla solreenga.....

short and sweet a...... pl continue..

adhu sari.

ipadi kadhal kadhai solla than - ithana build up a???

thread open panni.. ellaraiyum vara vechu......

hmmmmmmm..

You are a Nice Creator.hmmmmmmmmmm.

Thiru :lol2:

Neenga unga 'personal' katha ellam soleetu irukeenga :shock:

apurum naa en kathaiya aarambicha athuku enaku oru naal poora thevai, type panna :lol2:

I beg u 2 kaantinue :lol2:

Ok, indha pidiyungaL BGM

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

Few Days after my intro with R... the same person who had shown myself to R, in similiar manner diverted a guy ( :argh: ) towards me to solve the doubts.. That time only i had noted that aal Kaatti person Properly.. Like in Vaali, It was love at second Sight :wink:
Oh yeah .. She was my first Love :P

IR Fans: BGM: vizhiyil vizhi mOdhi idhaya kadhavondru thirandhadhE...
ARR Fans:BGM:nEtru illAdha mAtram ennadhu

First time naan yaen avala sariyaa note pannalainnu ellaarukkum purinjirukkum :fishgrin:

Antha payyana enna noakki vittuttu naan paarthathum chinnathaa Oru Punnagai.. Pachakunnu ava manasula ottikitta.. :P ( naan maththavangala paarthu sirichathukku pazhi vaanganumnu ninaikiravanga manasukullayae sirichikoanga :ashamed: )
IR Fans: BGM: pothi vecha malliga mottu poothiruchu vekkatha vittu
ARR Fans:BGM:hosanna

Antha rendu paarvai kku munnaala avala naan note pannathilla.. Then i came to know that she joined as a faculty there a week before. :D

She was a faculty, I was a student there.. But for doubts clarification she was pushing people to me. :lol2: Well, she joined for teaching scripting languages like JavaScript, html, etc..

[Her name is Karnan's wife name :P She is not modern like most Mumbai girls.. Romba simple aa iruppaa, Konjam traditional Maharashtrian girl :P ]

For Practice purposes Computers were kept in 2 big cabins separated by a glass window. when she is on the other side, naan avala note panrathum, ava enna note panrathum was continuing for few days :)
IR Fans: BGM: nI dhAnE endhan pon vasantham
ARR Fans:BGM: kandukondein kandukondein


Ippadi paarthutae irunthaa enna aagurathu..aduthta step kku poaga vaenaamaannu naan :think:
She itself came to me few days later, asking me to teach Java to her :wink: Karumbu thinga ethukku kooli :boo:
IR Fans: BGM: oru pattAm poochi nenjukuLLE sutrugindraDhE
ARR Fans:BGM:kaNNAmoochi EnadA en kaNNA


Teaching continued for few days :yakyak: (yethaachum oru nalla bgm/ songs poattu kaetukoanga :lol2: )
<Music Director's note> idhai naan konjam free-yA interpret paNNikkarEn
IR Fans: BGM: rOja ondru mutham kEtkum nEram
ARR Fans:BGM:rukkumaNI rukkumaNI

Then came a good news which in one way a bad news :sigh2:
b] IR Fans: BGM[/b]: pothi vecha malliga mottu <sad version>
ARR Fans:BGM:mAyA mAya mAya ellAm mAyA

Keep Guessing. :roll: . That comes in next Part.. btw what happened to Miss. R ? athuvum aduththa part :noteeth:

kavalai vaendaam rasiga perumakkalae ( :shock: ), eppadiyum aduththa part la mudichiduren :think:

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Plum :

Mudiyala :rotfl3: only Fossible by you !

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Originally Posted by Kambar_Kannagi

Avan avanuku nadakkum bOthu thAn theriyum. :wink:
Practically speaking 'gouravam' is essential in 21st century.

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At the cost of precious lives?

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Avan avanuku nadakkum bOthu thAn theriyum. :wink:
Practically speaking 'gouravam' is essential in 21st century.

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:o Pulaingala konnuttu entha vithathila gauravam kidaikkuthu?

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Maanatha vAnggura piLLaigaL - appadi patta piLLaigaLE vEnAmngrEn...

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Originally Posted by Kambar_Kannagi

Avan avanuku nadakkum bOthu thAn theriyum. :wink:
Practically speaking 'gouravam' is essential in 21st century.

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At the cost of precious lives?

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Originally Posted by Kambar_Kannagi

Avan avanuku nadakkum bOthu thAn theriyum. :wink:
Practically speaking 'gouravam' is essential in 21st century.

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:o Pulaingala konnuttu entha vithathila gauravam kidaikkuthu?

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Maanatha vAnggura piLLaigaL - appadi patta piLLaigaLE vEnAmngrEn...

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:shock: :o

TM :thumbsup: kantinuee

Wow! How many hats does TM wear? Never knew he is such an interesting story teller! How well he maintains the suspense and tempo!!!

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Originally Posted by Kambar_Kannagi

Maanatha vAnggura piLLaigaL - appadi patta piLLaigaLE vEnAmngrEn...

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கொஞ்சம் தெளிவாக சொல்றீங்களா?

அதாவது, ஒரு பிள்ளை கொலைகாரன், ஊழல் பேர்வழி, திருடன், பலாத்காரி - அப்படியெல்லாம் இருந்தால் கண்டிப்பாக "மானத்தை வாங்குற" பிள்ளை என்று சொல்லலாம். மனதுக்குக்கஷ்டமென்றாலும் அப்படிப்பட்ட பிள்ளை தண்டனைக்குத்தகுதியானது என்று ஒத்துக்கொள்ளலாம்.

காதல்? அதில் என்ன மானம் போகுது? அவன் என்ன ஒரு பொண்ணைக்கர்ப்பமாக்கிட்டு கைவிட்டுட்டு ஓடுறானா என்ன?

மனம் ஒத்த ரெண்டு பேர் மரியாதையாக மணம் செய்வதில் மானம் எங்கே போகிறது?

புரியலை.

Sarna,
Very rarely she checks nowadays.. BTW she knows.. not in this manner though :P
In fact hub la few years before solli irukaen.. Shakthi shd be knowing.. enna appa just an overview. :P :oops:

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Originally Posted by tvsankar

ipadi kadhal kadhai solla than - ithana build up a???
thread open panni.. ellaraiyum vara vechu......
You are a Nice Creator.hmmmmmmmmmm.

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chae chae.. Love and lovers paththi pala varushamaa nakkal pannittu irukaen :noteeth: intha thread was a digression from vtv, opened by NOV :)

Thansk for the compliment.. :P
why that hmmmmmmmmmm :roll:

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Originally Posted by PARAMASHIVAN

Neenga unga 'personal' katha ellam soleetu irukeenga :shock:

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ithula katti kaakura alavukku periya rahasiyam irukirathaa enakku therila.. :)


Plum, it is so good :rotfl2: :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

Never knew he is such an interesting story teller!

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Thanks PP madam :P