A shame

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Originally Posted by sarna_blr

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

In spite of age-old discrimination- I feel it is genetic, in the male's build-up, male chauvnism- women have been establishing their importance with superiority, authority, dignity & emphasis from within their fortress! Isles of 'little worlds' do make the society at large, don't they? :huh:

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neenga enna solla var'reenga.... :roll:

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

enna puriyala? :wink:

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enakku purinjadhu.... but neenga ippadi solveenganu edhirpaarkkala... :?

PS... naan solla nenachchadha DM sollittaaru.... avar sonna ellaa points'um kidayaadhu.......siladhu mattum...

>>encouraging home environment for children<<

After the (last)child goes to school at 5 (nowadays earlier), if a mom is forced to sit idle at home - citing reasons like "physical discomfort" etc, she'll possibly get depressed. This is perhaps one of the reasons for my personal observation of "higher rate of depression among middle aged, educated housewives". That is not so much in the case of working women, much less as per my personal observation. (If statistics from official sources show otherwise, I'll change my opinion).

It's not necessarily a job, but some engaging activity (may be a voluntary service at a local center of charity) is important for women instead of getting spoilt seeing TV serials:-)

<but neenga ippadi solveenganu edhirpaarkkala>

I often laugh to myself in pure amusement at all the 'notions' people have about me!!! kurudan yaaNaiyai paarththa kathaithaan!!!

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Originally Posted by app_engine

>>encouraging home environment for children<<

After the (last)child goes to school at 5 (nowadays earlier), if a mom is forced to sit idle at home - citing reasons like "physical discomfort" etc, she'll possibly get depressed. This is perhaps one of the reasons for my personal observation of "higher rate of depression among middle aged, educated housewives". That is not so much in the case of working women, much less as per my personal observation. (If statistics from official sources show otherwise, I'll change my opinion).

It's not necessarily a job, but some engaging activity (may be a voluntary service at a local center of charity) is important for women instead of getting spoilt seeing TV serials:-)

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veettula irundhaa chummaa irukkaanga'nu arththamaa?... avanga seira vElaya oru naal neenga senju paarunga.... appa puriyum andha kashttam....

>>yet I believe strongly in intuitive approach also<<
எப்படி? அம்மா கையில் அன்னம் உண்ட குழந்தை அல்லாததை விட அறிவாளி என்றா? அம்மா என்றால் அன்பு, நாட் நெசசரிலி அறிவு:-))

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Originally Posted by app_engine

>>encouraging home environment for children<<

After the (last)child goes to school at 5 (nowadays earlier), if a mom is forced to sit idle at home - citing reasons like "physical discomfort" etc, she'll possibly get depressed. This is perhaps one of the reasons for my personal observation of "higher rate of depression among middle aged, educated housewives". That is not so much in the case of working women, much less as per my personal observation. (If statistics from official sources show otherwise, I'll change my opinion).

It's not necessarily a job, but some engaging activity (may be a voluntary service at a local center of charity) is important for women instead of getting spoilt seeing TV serials:-)

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Of course, as the children grow up, women get more leisure, more time for themselves. Not all get immersed in mega serials. There are ever so many activities one can take up without disturbing their household chores. My belief is career women are more prone to stress & depression than women at home! They age faster, suffer more physical ailments! How dependable are your statistics if there are any?

>>veettula irundhaa chummaa irukkaanga'nu arththamaa?... avanga seira vElaya oru naal neenga senju paarunga.... appa puriyum andha kashttam....<<

sarna_blr, we're talking about a situation that a woman experiences after she's suddenly relieved of looking after the child for about 6 hours a day, everything else being the same. I'm not of the opinion that all women at home idle watching TV. (Interstingly, in U.S., the term used is 'home maker' and not 'house wife'). However, with modern technology making a lot of things easy (washing, cooking etc take fraction of a time compared to what our parents had to suffer), it could be hard on women at home. Especially if they are college-educated and want to use some of their knowledge in more ways than helping the child's "home work".:-)

Another thing, sarna_blr, "avanga seira vElaiya" nAn pala nAL seidhrukkEn:-)) So I know exactly the correct magnitude:-))

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Originally Posted by app_engine

Another thing, sarna_blr, "avanga seira vElaiya" nAn pala nAL seidhrukkEn:-)) So I know exactly the correct magnitude:-))

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:bow:

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Originally Posted by app_engine

>>yet I believe strongly in intuitive approach also<<
எப்படி? அம்மா கையில் அன்னம் உண்ட குழந்தை அல்லாததை விட அறிவாளி என்றா? அம்மா என்றால் அன்பு, நாட் நெசசரிலி அறிவு:-))

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If you are bent on arguing like this I can only laugh indulgently!