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[gragavan]

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[malligai]

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//so why to leave trying... try.. try again.. another time.. till death... may be you can find the right way before //---- ±øÄ¡ÕìÌõ ¦¸¡ïºõ ¿øÄ advice ¦¸¡Îì¸ Ü¼¡¾¡??

[xlntbarani]

Death starts with Life,
Live still...
Anger is the Hunger for learning,
Analyse still...
Troubles r bubbling Memories,
Enjoy still...
All beings are good,
Accept still...

[xlntbarani]

Success of Life
lies in Giving...
Give all that you
have till now...
And let Life..!

Life will fill
You with
What..?.. Actually
You need to be
Filled of...

[xlntbarani]

Good Morning... is a vital greeting..

Inevitable truth
behind is....

that u are being remembered by the one who greets - when he/she wake up this morning...

... Thank God.. You too was remembered by some one...

[xlntbarani]

Please Dont think of Others....

No need for you to think about them...

Think about you.. your life.. and how to...

If you have... started thinking about others...

Then...

Please..

STOP THINKING ABOUT YOU.

[xlntbarani]

Hi friends... A New topic to discuss and share with...

Need all my friends comments and new ones too...


Topic:
What is Possessiveness....
Does it score anything to ManKind or Not?...


Expecting... Ragav, Aravind, nerruppu roja, maveeran, iyappan, sidiqsa, new comers, shy to share their angles and lastly the chance goes to TSO, Kathir and Malligai..

xlntBarani

[temporary sori-Observer]

Àý¢,

Possessing ¦À¡Õð¼ýÚ «ýÒ À¢Ã¢¾ü¸ñ
²¦Éý (Ú)assessing ¦À¡ÕðÎ.

¦À¡º…¢í ¦À¡Õð¼ýÚ «ýÒ À¢Ã¢¾ü¸ñ
²¦Éý ȺŠ…¢í ¦À¡ÕðÎ.

[xlntbarani]

Some where in the net I saw this.. was interesting so.. leaving a copy here too..

Suppose the average human life in today's world is not more than 60 years. If you analyse the break-up of activities associated with these 60 years of your life, you can see that it more or less matches with the following:

12 Years in Working

22 Years in Sleeping

04 Years in Routine Travelling

05 Years in Eating

03 Years in Bathing, Dressing etc...

06 Years in Useless Chatting, Gossip

04 Years in Sickness & Illness

Balance ? Only 4 Years
Our only question to one and all is, why should mankind think, involve in activities that result in sufferings, terror, hatred, fighting, killings etc... in the short span of 4 years left to them. It needs to be utilized in a better way by doing all good things, helping others and thanking God for the opportunity given to us in being a human being... Live and Let Live.

[xlntbarani]

Like... some thing which men like to feel

Love.. some thing which men like to have

Life... combination of like and love.. with or without.. but which withstands from the day you came in and with a day to go in..

In this life.. we feel things with the five sensors we have.. see.. hear.. smell.. taste.. physical contact.. to like or not to...

This like to is the desire .. the drive sparks towards.. the feel... which gradually raises in to a decision of having that continuosly or frequently..

After the decision... we dream of having it.. feeling it... without having and feeling... that arises the mind to devote ourself to the need to have or the want of the feel...

Till this ... the 5 d's can be applied to any thing... anything to attain the goal.. that is
desire... drive... decision.. dream... devotion...

the last one.. must have is the 6th D - determination

ask me ... 8) where possessiveness comes in...

like wise the 5ds in Affection / Love

desire... is like
drive.. is feel of want
decision.. decides the need
dream.. of getting the warmth
devotion.. showing towards / taking care

which all beings does...

the 6th D determination... is the one to be defined here in brief...

Determination in Work.. is gaining Money / Satisfaction / Position

Determination in Studies.. is Scoring Marks / Knowledge / Grade

Determination in Life can be filled by the one according to their own like / need / want

But in Love...

as I have quoted in my 'Kadhal ennum eNam'

Love is Giving.. not Getting... No one can Get it... It can be Given...

You may ask... What is the difference between giving and getting

Ya.. If one gives another one will get it naa... then how is it possible to give and not to get....

See... You can give a Rupee and get a Rupee worth things to home...
Like wise .. Vice versa...

But in Love you cannot exchange.... You cannot worth it... You cannot sell...

Then How... What you are giving might be equal to what you are getting...

Getting is the one ... which was Given by some one to please or to make you enjoy.. or to make you suffer... anything...

The one which was given by a person... will be of no use to you... but you may accept it... and make him feel happy.. this is where i mean Giving...

But you cant GET it with out GIVING... and also to say You can GIVE without someone to GET it..

So in Love you can GIVE and you cant GET

So Love is GIVING....


Now I take the words....

DETERMINATION
GETTING
GIVING
and lastly to
POSSESIVENESS

When there is no chance of Getting and the only chance is Giving...

If you try for Getting ... what will be the result....??????


Now .. after knowing the TRUTH behind LOVE

WHAT WILL BE YOUR 6TH D for DETERMINATION....


WHAT WILL YOU DETERMINE FOR....


DETERMINE FOR GETTING.... OR ... DETERMINE FOR GIVING....



IF YOU DETERMINE GIVING... THEN IT IS DIVINE





IF YOU DETERMINE GETTING.... YOU WONT / CANT / ... THEN



as TSO Wrote...
///

¦À¡º…¢í ¦À¡Õð¼ýÚ «ýÒ À¢Ã¢¾ü¸ñ
²¦Éý ȺŠ…¢í ¦À¡ÕðÎ.

///


You cant Get... so you deserve a FEAR ...
In which you will suffer TO RETAIN it ...
which slowly makes your mind to forget that...
the affection or love is giving and nothing more than that...

So the FEAR TO RETAIN - LOVE is POSSESIVENESS


YOU JUDGE YOURSELF ....

HOW MUCH POSSESIVENESS SCORES TO MANKIND
AND
WHAT GRADE IT PUTS YOU IN.....



THANK YOU FOR READING