déjà vu ( 1. A LEARNED YES)

[Arthi]

Hello shakthi..
I feel we all have forgotten the place whre the story is moving and in which community.
Generally in srirangam, a guy cann't hold a girl's hand and that to in front of all. this is the first point.
If he is a relative/close family friend then that is different. even in such case also a friend cann't touch/hold a girl's hand.
Secondly, as a friend what is wrong in advising ur friend the same way shree advised her friend.
It seems that shree knows about Aswath already, even though Aswath character is not elaborated... will be done in coming episodes i believe.
Aswath is not at all a hero, In such case what is wrong is advising sharmi... she is saving her friends life.

About smoking...and this dialog avaala oru nimisham ninachu paathiyaa, idha avaalaala thaangikka mudiyumaa?

Oru aacharamaana iyyengar family-la how can you expect a girl would fall in love with a boy who smokes, here also the place Srirangam is very much important here
In sriramgam the first 2 streets(uttra veedhi & Chitra veedhi) is full of brahmins and they follow mostly all routines that a brahmin need to follow.
So Sharmi is also belong to that catagory and thts why shree is shocked to come to know about her friend.
All these points we need to look along with the story and the place where it is happening i feel.

[Arthi]

BG.. I thought the opinions expressed by Shree are just the characterisation of her thinking towards Love.

Rightly said Ganesh ji

But ninga argue panradha paatha, it looks like you have just conveyed your thoughts on love through Shree's mouth madhiri irukke Are am I catching it wrong?

Yes Kadhyoda dhann naanun edhai paarkaren...
mathavang aeppadi

[Shakthiprabha.]

hmmmmmm may be all of u have points.

u are all right

I loved the points esp which rami said

[bingleguy]

hmmmmmm may be all of u have points.
u are all right
I loved the points esp which rami said

idhukku naan reply pannamalae ye irundhirukkalaam
appo naanga sonnadhu ellam verum vetti typingaaa J K

BG.. I thought the opinions expressed by Shree are just the characterisation of her thinking towards Love. But ninga argue panradha paatha, it looks like you have just conveyed your thoughts on love through Shree's mouth madhiri irukke Are am I catching it wrong?

unga paarvai thappillai Ganesh ! I was not arguing, but was stressing points in support of waht i have portrayed here !
I have a different notion about LOVE ! this is a character, and all the reasoning has been brought in the point of the character, the place where it is happenning, the family which is being considered !

[bingleguy]

Y cnt they choose yr life partner.. their first and foremost thought is ur well being.. U can choose yr partner .. But one sec give a thot , whther he will suit ur family...
A husband is not the only relation in a girls life
Smlrly
Wife is not the only relation in a guys life...

That was a healthy thought ! though i ve not mentioned it widely n openly, here the thought is that parents also have a part in SELECTING (i didnt mean choosing) a guy's or a gal's life partner! Tis not only for a gal it happens, tis for the guy too, in such families !

Even when u buy a thing, say dress, u think a lot... whether that color will suit u
Whether the design will suit u, whether the material is gud, whether the size is correct .. everything u consider ...
Just for a dress which will cost u few thousands...

Ppl are choosy, tis easy to choose a dress, coz u match it only for u, just for u ! but when it comes to life partner, tis not only u ... tis FAMILY ! As rightly quoted by Rami, guy is not the only relation for a gal and vice-versa ! Sorry to say, sometime back, why, even now there are ppl who look for a guy or a gal settled in America ! i do not know wht is this America craze ... that too, it happens only in IT industry ! Afterall, money is not everything ... many dont understand what is it goin n living there ! Money there is not coming just like that ! America is not always cool ppl shld understand that !

Live an American life n America, nobody bothers ... but dont live an American Life n India !

But when it comes to love.. where do u lose ur brain...

Well i dont fully agree with this .... ppl are not so very incalculative, but they do make mistakes, which sometimes coz their own life, as the real life example quoted by Rami !

Y cant u think of these questions..
1. Is he/she the right person for me
2. Will my parents like him/her
3. If not, how can I convince them ...
4. Does he/she also fee the same way as me
5. What are my other aims in life..
6. How will I fulfil them..
7. Wat are his/her aims..
8. Will his/her parents like me?
9. Wat does he/she expect from his/her life partner .. Do I suit the role..
10. Wat do I expect from my LP.. Does he/she suit the role..

Absolutely, Please ppl, again dont ask the question, why shld my parents like him/her ... Please ! I again stress, marriage is not only husband n wife, tis family, a bonding between family !
These are the questions, that will definitely have to be pondered by anybody, be it gal or guy... !

Rami, i appreciate this light from you ! This is surely a very important ! Thanks Rami, Thanks a LOT !

[Arthi]

[quote="bingleguy"]

hmmmmmm may be all of u have points.
u are all right
I loved the points esp which rami said

idhukku naan reply pannamalae ye irundhirukkalaam
appo naanga sonnadhu ellam verum vetti typingaaa J K

Hello Bingle,
It is not necessary that everyone should like your points.
Enga naan Shakthi-nE ezhdharen.... don't want to call her as GURUJI here...
Shakthi likes Rami's view, it does not mean that ur points are not valid

[bingleguy]

i shld have expanded, J K .... that was meant to be Just Kidding

[rami]

Thanks everyone for giving a thought on wat i said...

Whether the marriages are arranged or love-arranged, if parents and the youngsters try to acknowledge mutual feelings and also respect the traditions, marriages can always be made in heaven...

In India even if the married couple opt for unit family than a joint family, still family values and relationships are strong in India. R there anyone who doent have fond memories of relations (Paatti, Thatha, athai, chithi, mama, chithappa etc)...

[rami]

2006layum amma 10 months sumanthu thaane pekkara..

akkas ennakku oru doubt, it got nothoing to do with this topic, but i have been thinking for long time!
here in europe they say 9 months, why do we say 10 months? i and my bro was thinking for long time. he said it might have sth to do with the weeks or sth, but i dont get it at all?
i asked my arabian friend how they say in arabic. she answered me that its 9 month there too?
how could it be 10 months for us and 9 months for them?
i dont know whom i should ask?
would u explain me, if thats ok?

@ crazy, if u calculate the gestation period it is 37 - 43 weeks...
Roughly 270 - 300 days.. 300/30 = 10 months.. Though all 10 months dont have 300 days..

[rami]

hmmmmmm may be all of u have points.

u are all right

I loved the points esp which rami said

Thanks Shakti..