~ ARYA ~ and his Movies

**Thunderbird** · 29th April 2006, 09:28 AM

It's idiotic to form an opinion based on films

... films are exaggerrated

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kb · 29th April 2006, 09:29 AM

Rach if u think like this then any french women can tell americans as narrow minded guys..

becoz in france they are more Broad minded..

**Surya** · 29th April 2006, 09:30 AM

Kb,
Even in india, there are some broad minded areas...

**rachel** · 29th April 2006, 09:30 AM

Originally Posted by Surya

Originally Posted by Rach

no...when i watch these tamil films living in western countries and seeing white people's care free independent life style, it's so confusing...

Who cares about the whites?? Do they even have a culture to begin with?!?

About 75% of the girls loose their virginity in College...About 90% of the guys loose it when they are step foot into college.

About 50% of their marriages end in divorces....There is no such thing as white culture...

the only ppl that claim that there was a white culture are the insane knights of the Ku Klux Klan.

What cultural value to they have for us to compare ourselves with them?!?

virginity is a big deal in tamil culture. isn't it

...why do you guys make it a big deal?

in tamilculture man is not equal to woman.

divorce...yeah..what's wrong with it?

tamilla than 'kaal annalum purushan, pul annalum purushan' endu sooli ethanai women azhuraanga...

divorce paana who'd marry them?

**Surya** · 29th April 2006, 09:35 AM

Wait a sec....

Originally Posted by Rach

...why do you guys make it a big deal?

Because it is part of our culture..unlike some ppl, we take pride in our culture, because we know that it's one of the most superior and ancient cultures in the world. What's wrong in it?

U STILL HAVEN'T SAID WHY U THINK THAT IT'S NARROW MINDED TO EXPECT A WIFE TO BE A VIRGIN!!

Originally Posted by Rach

divorce...yeah..what's wrong with it?

There is a difference between divorcing a guy because he is abusive, and there is a difference between divorcing a guy because u (Not u...just a person) got tired of him in bed. Take a look @ the divorces that take place in the US, u'll see why most of them happen.

Originally Posted by Rach

tamilla than 'kaal annalum purushan, pul annalum purushan' endu sooli ethanai women azhuraanga...

Ethule? Mega Seriel-liya?

Actually, there are many who do leave their husbands for being abusive alcoholics..etc...no one is opposing that. Infact, there are organization which help women like that in TN itself.

**ab_123** · 29th April 2006, 09:36 AM

I am a woman, and I completely disagree with you Rachel.

Even in the US, they are promoting the concept of "Abstenance", right from High school.

This is as a result of:

Teen pregnancies
STDs
Abortions
Abadonments

I think women need to respect themselves, and their bodies more than not giving any value to something that should only be shared with someone you love. And if you do love them that much, why not commit to that one person?

**great** · 29th April 2006, 09:37 AM

RACHEL, YOU ARE LIKE FROG IN THE WELL

PADAM PAATHU KETTU PONA KUTTUTHAKKU NEE THAN THALAIVI

**Surya** · 29th April 2006, 09:38 AM

Actually, we are drifting away here...

The main point:

Why is it that u think guys that expect their wives to be virgins = Narrow Minded-ness?

Let's not get into culture unless we have to...

**Thunderbird** · 29th April 2006, 09:39 AM

no explanation for that statement?

**great** · 29th April 2006, 09:41 AM

Rachel, you know during Navarathiri in north india ... pregnancy rates will be on raise. Do you mean to say these matters are to be proud at. ITS SHAME