Breaking up...

[cancer]

Ya you are so clever... :P

SMs panninatha inga msg pannakoodatha..

[swathy]

pannalam. sondhama yedhavadhu solla koodadha

[rami]

A pity, "marriage" ( or is "relationship" a better word?) has come to be viewed as buying a car! Take a trial ride beieving you like the vehicle, decide to buy or not, even if bought, feel free to dispose of it when a better model looms up the horizon. Greater pity, it is like that for both the sexes!

PP mam I think uve mistaken my topic.. My topic is this.. Two people are in love with each other.. At some point of time for some reason or other they decide to split up.. After that split up can the lovers behave like friends again...

Love has a possesiveness... Can u let it go..
Love has certain mischief which is not in friendship...
When u look into the eyes of the beloved, you xperience butterflies in ur stomach... Can it change with a single word "FRIENDS"

Even if u decide to be friends, can u keep ur limits and distance..
This is the question..

[rami]

[dsath]

Hi Rami,
It depends on the break up. A break up means that love ceases to exist. When there is no love you can certainly have other types of relationship including friendship.

But the equation changes when one person is still in love with the other. The situation is delicate. One person has got over it, while the other hasn’t. The case you have explained makes me feel that the other person is still in denial of the break up.
Under these circumstances IMO its best to stay away and try to get on with his/her own life. Time is the best medicine. When the 2 people are in contact with each other it’s hard to appreciate other things in life and its very easy to think about the relationship and droll over it over and over again.
But when the contact is nil/minimal, you can concentrate on other things, and given time he/she may even realize that the break up was good . One never knows.
DSath.

[rami]

This was a forwarded message and it got me thinking./.. So I thought.. Let my fellow hubbers think abt it too..

[Shakthiprabha.]

U CAN BE FRIENDS.

100 percent u can.

[Lambretta]

*Sigh*.........a much repeated question!
Again, as always my answer is rare but yes def. possible!

[Shakthiprabha.]

wow lambretta

I never thought THERE WOULD SOMEONE TO AGREE WITH ME

[bingleguy]

hello Shakthi .... idhu possible nnu naanum munnadiye sonnene .... yaarumae paakaliyaa ?