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24th April 2008, 04:24 PM
#111
Senior Member
Veteran Hubber
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Originally Posted by
MADDY
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Originally Posted by
Anoushka
maddy I think this expectation to change is mutual is most cases! For eg... you will expect her to understand your feelings about being "comfortaby clothed" and she will expect you to understand her feelings about being "well dressed"
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you cannot avoid this at all
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it is a part and parcel of life accept & move on instead of being picky
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ok heres the deal - if i have expectations abt myself - its fair, if i have expectation on someone else - its a bit unfair.......i'm also not ruling out completely that we shuldnt even change a bit for our partner - we should ofcourse, but theres a line that both need to draw.......
moreover, my grouse is that girls get more attracted to airy-fairy dialogue deliverers than real genuine person who shoots off his inner character.........they imagine their guy to be like this and they dont care even if its a just a mask..............a good example is, a guy who speaks interesting things might not be a good guy, a guy who talks boring things may not be a baddy..........there has to be a deeper look into one's character b4 telling a yes or no
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atheppadi women are also human beings-nu marandhudureenga?
it takes all kinds to make the world, there are people like me, who don't care about looks and who prefers to hear the truth rather than flattery! I find loads of women around like me, and men who are the opposite too! I've seen men who want their wife to be well dressed, well educated, etc, don't care what her actual character is.....
don't worry maddy, I am sure you will find the right girl and then life will be happy ever after
The moment will arrive when you are comfortable with who you are, and what you are--when you don't feel the need to apologize for anything or to deny anything. To be comfortable in your own skin is the beginning of strength.
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24th April 2008 04:24 PM
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24th April 2008, 04:33 PM
#112
Senior Member
Diamond Hubber
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Originally Posted by
Anoushka
![Quote](images/misc/quote_icon.png)
Originally Posted by
MADDY
![Quote](images/misc/quote_icon.png)
Originally Posted by
Anoushka
maddy I think this expectation to change is mutual is most cases! For eg... you will expect her to understand your feelings about being "comfortaby clothed" and she will expect you to understand her feelings about being "well dressed"
![Smile](images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
you cannot avoid this at all
![Smile](images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
it is a part and parcel of life accept & move on instead of being picky
![Smile](images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
ok heres the deal - if i have expectations abt myself - its fair, if i have expectation on someone else - its a bit unfair.......i'm also not ruling out completely that we shuldnt even change a bit for our partner - we should ofcourse, but theres a line that both need to draw.......
moreover, my grouse is that girls get more attracted to airy-fairy dialogue deliverers than real genuine person who shoots off his inner character.........they imagine their guy to be like this and they dont care even if its a just a mask..............a good example is, a guy who speaks interesting things might not be a good guy, a guy who talks boring things may not be a baddy..........there has to be a deeper look into one's character b4 telling a yes or no
![Very Happy](images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif)
atheppadi women are also human beings-nu marandhudureenga?
![Smile](images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
it takes all kinds to make the world, there are people like me, who don't care about looks and who prefers to hear the truth rather than flattery! I find loads of women around like me, and men who are the opposite too! I've seen men who want their wife to be well dressed, well educated, etc, don't care what her actual character is.....
don't worry maddy,
I am sure you will find the right girl and then life will be happy ever after ![Smile](images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
enakku
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24th April 2008, 11:29 PM
#113
Senior Member
Diamond Hubber
![Quote](images/misc/quote_icon.png)
Originally Posted by
Anoushka
atheppadi women are also human beings-nu marandhudureenga?
![Smile](images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
it takes all kinds to make the world, there are people like me, who don't care about looks and who prefers to hear the truth rather than flattery! I find loads of women around like me, and men who are the opposite too! I've seen men who want their wife to be well dressed, well educated, etc, don't care what her actual character is.....
don't worry maddy, I am sure you will find the right girl and then life will be happy ever after
![Smile](images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
sorry, if i sounded like that
.......i agree that there are good women and inconsiderate men, but i definitely feel percentage of inconsiderate ppl are higher in women.....its just my opinion, purely bcos i have literally have lots of experiences that wont even erase in next birth
hey, thanks for ur wishes - all i want is a girl who can look beyond the "bore" Maddy
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29th April 2008, 02:27 PM
#114
whats happening here??? ![Crying or Very sad](images/smilies/icon_cry.gif)
continue ...
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21st May 2008, 03:56 AM
#115
![Quote](images/misc/quote_icon.png)
Originally Posted by
MADDY
![Quote](images/misc/quote_icon.png)
Originally Posted by
Anoushka
maddy I think this expectation to change is mutual is most cases! For eg... you will expect her to understand your feelings about being "comfortaby clothed" and she will expect you to understand her feelings about being "well dressed"
![Smile](images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
you cannot avoid this at all
![Smile](images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
it is a part and parcel of life accept & move on instead of being picky
![Smile](images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
ok heres the deal - if i have expectations abt myself - its fair, if i have expectation on someone else - its a bit unfair.......i'm also not ruling out completely that we shuldnt even change a bit for our partner - we should ofcourse, but theres a line that both need to draw.......
moreover, my grouse is that girls get more attracted to airy-fairy dialogue deliverers than real genuine person who shoots off his inner character.........they imagine their guy to be like this and they dont care even if its a just a mask..............a good example is, a guy who speaks interesting things might not be a good guy, a guy who talks boring things may not be a baddy..........there has to be a deeper look into one's character b4 telling a yes or no
![Very Happy](images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif)
then, boys are always after the good looking girls.. athukku enna solreenga??
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21st May 2008, 04:46 AM
#116
Senior Member
Platinum Hubber
Enna Avaasaromm
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Originally Posted by
Devar Magan
whats happening here???
continue ...
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21st May 2008, 05:52 AM
#117
Senior Member
Regular Hubber
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Originally Posted by
Devar Magan
then, boys are always after the good looking girls.. athukku enna solreenga??
enda ippadi self goal adikara
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21st May 2008, 07:43 AM
#118
Administrator
Platinum Hubber
12 Signs to know, If you Love someone
TWELVE : When you're on the phone with them late at night and they
hang up,you still miss them even when it was just two minute.
ELEVEN : You walk really slow when you're with them.
TEN : You feel shy whenever they're around.
NINE : You smile when you hear their voice.
EIGHT : When you look at them,you cant't see the other people
around you,you just see him/her.
SIX : They're all you think about.
FIVE : You realize you're always smiling when you're looking at
them.
FOUR : You would do anything for them, just to see them.
THREE : While reading this, there was one person on your mind this
whole time.
TWO : You were so busy thinking about that person, you didn't
notice number seven was missing.
ONE : You just reverse to check & are now silently laughing at yourself.
Never argue with a fool or he will drag you down to his level and beat you at it through sheer experience!
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21st May 2008, 08:18 AM
#119
Senior Member
Seasoned Hubber
![Quote](images/misc/quote_icon.png)
Originally Posted by
Devar Magan
then, boys are always after the good looking girls.. athukku enna solreenga??
...no comments....
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i'm awaiting Maddy's response :P
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22nd May 2008, 01:40 AM
#120
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Originally Posted by
MrIndia
![Quote](images/misc/quote_icon.png)
Originally Posted by
Devar Magan
then, boys are always after the good looking girls.. athukku enna solreenga??
enda ippadi self goal adikara
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remba naalaa thread thoonguthu..
but, naan sonnathum unmai thaan..
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