avaru busy-pa.. already oruthar avaru uyira eduthuttu irukkaaruOriginally Posted by sarna_blr
vayasu kolaru...
kaadhalu onniyum kadavul illayada...
indha ezhavu ellaam hormone seyyum kalagam dhaanada...adhanaala orEy confusion...
innum 6 maasaththula oru ponna select panni lovva aarambikkanum...
sudhir nalla idea kudukkuraaru... idhukkum oru idea kuduppaarunnu nenakkurEn...
//bye ... i am leaving for today..
KBC maathiri 15 questions and tips..As per the request of sarna and few others, who
wanted me to post TIPS on dating girls. I just wanna give some
BASIC tips for INITIAL friendship with any strange girl (general tips,
behaviour may vary depending upon the girl, her character
and the surroudings she was brought up)
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1. Smile short and sweet, when u introduce urself, dont GRIN for long time
(it may make her think u are a vazhisal character)
2. DO not take undue advantage /liberty with her and overindulge urself.
It may drive u off from her very fast.
3. Do not push urself too much, GIVE HER AMPLE space. Interference
irritates any person.
4. Respect her views, ideas, opinions! Dont thrust urs on her.
(Dont dominate! Dont let her dominate)
5. Do not make fun of her or tease her or belittle her before any third party,
esp on issues which are sensitive to her.
6. When u talk, NEVER EVER look anywhere else except her eyes. (looking
away from the face, shows ur DILEMMA and COWARDICE, which
girls may shun)
7. Do not proceed to touch her, except for a firm professional handshake of hi
and bye.
8. TALK and ALLOW HER TO TALK too. Both are equally important.
9. Share and allow her to share too. This builds intimacy and understanding.
10. Do NOT build any love relationship, until u are sure, this would
work out MORE THAN real freindship. The feeling of love/interest
should be mutual, ELSE DONT FORCE ur love on friendship.
11. IF ur 'love' is not accepted, do not coerce her, threaten her
emotionally, but continue to respect her feelings and maintain a good
healthy friendship.
12. Dont develop ego amidst love/friendship. When u fight, dont develop ego, and wait whoz gonna patch up. You can take a step further and patch up too sometimes. You can allow her to take a step further and patch up too othertimes.
13. Dont GO OVERBOARD on indian values and culture which ur parents
and her parents may object.
14. IF u wanna build a lifeterm relationship, let ur pros and cons
flow freely. Understand her negatives and REVEAL ur negative qualities
too.
15. BE URSELF, never try to imitate anyone or never try to PLEASE her. Just
be ur natural self, 'not-being-urself' does not pave way for longterm relationship.
Hope atleast one tip was useful
Goodluck!
antha ponnuku kalyanam nichayam aachina.. ithey points-a reverse la follow pannunga
inga!!
specimen-ey kidaika maatekadhu. enga poyi experiment nadathurathu..
ellam kalyanam aanavanga.. jodi jodi-a suththi.. kadupugala kilapuraango
O dear GOD.. sathya sodhanai
not only while talking.. even while she is walking in the opposite direction towards you.. and both get eye contact for 3 seconds or more.. athu oru thani kick-u.. heart beat increases.. :P :P
idha thaan naanga sonnomla
sudhir.. nalla vaayula varudhutoughest part i feel........sometimes girls might be totally out of sync with u..........there was one girl i met who said "IR is the only genuine MD left in India" - ava kooda naa vera enna pesa mudiyum............building up conversations with opposite minded ppl. will always lead to unneccessary arguements......if u pretty non-chalant abt it, u may get away but if ur passion takes over then - doubt dhaan
u or atleast i never know wat girls like to talk abt and not talk abt........maybe i know a bit of "donts" .....dont talk abt patriotism, cricket, technical aspects of cinema - keep ur tarantino, kurusowa praises to urself, philosophy - this turns off more than most of girls
enna IR vs ARR pattimandramaa nadatha poringa ? namakku vendiyadhu namakku pudicha ponnoda kadala podarathuku oru subject.. ungalukku idha vida pazhamanaa situation varave varaadhu :P appidye "rojava thaalatti", "kannukkul nooru nilava" paathu, "andhi mazhaiya pozhiya" vechchu, "enna saththam indha neram"nu develop pannuvingalaa.. adha vittutu
always unlike pole attract.. so people with different view points are likely to get more attention than the ones who agree with them.. summa apdiye avanga subjectla pechu kuduthu, edhanaala appadi solraanga, avanga solradhu romba correct aanaa ippadi oru view point irukka chance irukke'nu humble'a aarambichu, slow'a dominate panna vendiyadhudane
same frequency irukkaradhaalaya, gurukkal ponnu bus conductoroda odi pogudhu :P idhellaam romba aaraichi panni time waste pannaadhinga.. approach eppovume konjam avangala ego'va satisfy panra madhiri aarambichu, neenga eppo avangala dominate panna aarambichinga appadinu avangalukku theriyaadha alavukku kondu vandhudanum :P ambududhen :P
ganesh
Anbe Sivam
not only while talking.. even while she is walking in the opposite direction towards you.. and both get eye contact for 3 seconds or more.. athu oru thani kick-u.. heart beat increases.. :P :P
idha thaan naanga sonnomla
inga!!
specimen-ey kidaika maatekadhu. enga poyi experiment nadathurathu..
ellam kalyanam aanavanga.. jodi jodi-a suththi.. kadupugala kilapuraango
O dear GOD.. sathya sodhanai
Machi,
oru ponnu koodava unakku pudikkala...:P
Ponnu Vellai tholah? illai Karuppu tholah?
RE: Aennn.. Puli tholu..
Use short words, short sentences and short paragraphs. Never use jargon words like reconceptualize, demassification, attitudinally, judgmentally. They are hallmarks of a pretentious ass. - David Ogilvy
Ganesh:
“The real contest is always between what you've done and what you're capable of doing. You measure yourself against yourself and nobody else.” - Geoffrey Gaberino
hahaha.......wat i meant by IR fan was she was diametrically opposite to me.............for me, diff in IR and ARR is as much as diff in communism and capitalism, which is what i meant there...........sudhir.. nalla vaayula varudhu
always unlike pole attract.. so people with different view points are likely to get more attention than the ones who agree with them.. summa apdiye avanga subjectla pechu kuduthu, edhanaala appadi solraanga, avanga solradhu romba correct aanaa ippadi oru view point irukka chance irukke'nu humble'a aarambichu, slow'a dominate panna vendiyadhudane
same frequency irukkaradhaalaya, gurukkal ponnu bus conductoroda odi pogudhu :P idhellaam romba aaraichi panni time waste pannaadhinga.. approach eppovume konjam avangala ego'va satisfy panra madhiri aarambichu, neenga eppo avangala dominate panna aarambichinga appadinu avangalukku theriyaadha alavukku kondu vandhudanum :P ambududhen :P
the "opposite poles attract" theory is no more a foregone conclusion............for any relationship to work now, we need to have common minimum ground just bcos of the fact, the tolerance and adjustment capability of ppl. have come down............ofcourse, it all comes down to priorities, if the girl/love for her is more important, then we can put our preferences in backburner and persuade the girl................ofcourse, as i said, it becomes tuf............u have to hide ur priorities, have the patience and knack to persuade the girl into ur line of thinking..........
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