Obituary

[Querida]

Looks like the child was autistic. They should have been extra careful in that case.

But really really very sad. R I P

I read "Down Syndrome" nevertheless this is not a rare occurrence, it is a common tragedy when it comes to unsecured swimming pools.

how simple it will be for others and even her to blame herself, saying it was carelessness and of course the upperhanded can easily scoff "this would not happen if it were my child" these are the words that will destroy anyone...but what it was, was an accident, a woman pining to be a mother for 18 years labeled as careless is the utmost cruelty one can deal to her.... I think at this time all she needs is understanding and respect.

[kubrick]

Deepest condolences to Chithra Ma'am & family.

[Nerd]

but what it was, was an accident, a woman pining to be a mother for 18 years labeled as careless is the utmost cruelty one can deal to her.... I think at this time all she needs is understanding and respect.

But I was not talking to her was I? I don't know what exactly happened and I am just commenting based on a couple of news articles. And if they are true, she was indeed careless 'getting ready for the show with the pool door open leaving the child unattended?', could be accidental too but certainly this is one accident that could have been prevented. Its not like a drunk driver ramming into your car. Also it may not be her fault, she would have definitely had a babysitter. I am not meaning any offense certainly, this is such a sad happening and I express my deepest sympathies. Anyway this is certainly not the time to argue about my choice of words and I apologize if I had sounded caustic.

[AudazJay]

My heartfelt condolences to Chitra and her family. This is really sad. No amount of words would be able to console her right now. May Nandhana's soul rest in peace and may God gives Chitra and her family the strength to overcome this misfortune

[Dinesh84]

RIP!
This is very cruel..

[SoftSword]

But I was not talking to her was I? I don't know what exactly happened and I am just commenting based on a couple of news articles. And if they are true, she was indeed careless 'getting ready for the show with the pool door open leaving the child unattended?', could be accidental too but certainly this is one accident that could have been prevented. Its not like a drunk driver ramming into your car. Also it may not be her fault, she would have definitely had a babysitter. I am not meaning any offense certainly, this is such a sad happening and I express my deepest sympathies. Anyway this is certainly not the time to argue about my choice of words and I apologize if I had sounded caustic.

I propogate the same thoughts from my side too as i was the one who mentioned about the carelessness first.
anyway nothing can be changed now and I wish Chitra to be strong to overcome this.

[omega]

Very sad for Chitra.......Nothing can be worse than losing your long waited loved one......Very very cruel indeed......R.I.P

[Querida]

But I was not talking to her was I? I don't know what exactly happened and I am just commenting based on a couple of news articles. And if they are true, she was indeed careless 'getting ready for the show with the pool door open leaving the child unattended?', could be accidental too but certainly this is one accident that could have been prevented. Its not like a drunk driver ramming into your car. Also it may not be her fault, she would have definitely had a babysitter. I am not meaning any offense certainly, this is such a sad happening and I express my deepest sympathies. Anyway this is certainly not the time to argue about my choice of words and I apologize if I had sounded caustic.

Nerd,
First of all, I’m sorry to have offended you, I was replying more specifically about your comment about autism, and what followed was a comment I felt in general to what has already been said earlier and in other places as well; nevertheless I’m sorry if you felt I targeted you, that certainly was not my intention.

[app_engine]

Querida,
I think it's the thatstamil website that talked about autism as the condition while a couple other places mention as Down syndrome.

While such conditions can increase some risk, bodies of water are always dangerous to children regardless of their health conditions There had been any number of incidents involving children and pools

Extremely sad event. Sadness multiplied many times as this was Chitra's only child, born after many years of marriage.

Janaki ammA tried to be optimistic in wishing that Chitra chEchi will be blessed with another child (despite her less favourable age.)

Ordinary souls like us can only shed tears

[venkkiram]

இதுபோன்ற அசம்பாவித நிகழ்வுகளிலிருந்து பெறக்கூடிய பாடம் என்னவென்றால், (நந்தனா போன்ற குறைபாடு உள்ளவர்களைத் தவிர்த்து ) குழந்தைகளுக்கு, சிறுவர்களுக்கு முடிந்தவரையில் நீச்சல் பழக வையுங்கள். என்றைக்குமே பயன்படக் கூடிய ஒரு கலை. கண் முன்னே ஒருவர் தத்தளித்தால் கூட அவருக்கு உதவலாம். எனது அக்காக்களின் மகன்கள் இருவர் பத்தாம் வகுப்பு முடித்திருக்கிறார்கள். இந்த விடுமுறையில் எப்படியாவது நீச்சல் பழகுங்கள் என சொல்லியிருக்கிறேன்.