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25th November 2004, 07:46 PM
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Thankyou Cindy
Ohhhhhhhhhh!
Thanks a ton, Cindy, for that sweet, comforting mail. Thankfully, I have not had to face that problem. Though he doesn't remeber other ppl's b'day (even his parents or my parents), he remembers mine and gives me gifts for it. I'm lucky that way.
But i want him to learn driving and move into a new home (with just the 2 of us) or go abroad. Sigh!!! I have to wait........i don't know how many years for that!!!!
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25th November 2004 07:46 PM
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25th November 2004, 08:02 PM
#82
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i had this problem when i got married (arranged). in my family, birthdays were a non event. on the first one for my wife after marriage, she was getting all this long distance calls (which she missed because she was away at work) which had no msgs except that it was from her family.
when i heard those msgs i was concerned. but my wife had a long face and did not seem to be concerned. only later in the evening she let out that it was her b'day. i learned my lesson. and since then two days i have never forgotten is her birthday & wedding anniversary (i did this pro actively).
we have been married 24 years. still these are important to my wife. so we remember and celebrate it. my own birthdays, we remember, but true to my wishes, not celebrated.
compromise. and probably the right thing to do.
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28th November 2004, 01:15 PM
#83
Is there any way to get him to learn Driving??????????????
Is there any way to get him to apply for a job outside India?
Please, someone help...before the ultimate happens.
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28th November 2004, 09:14 PM
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29th November 2004, 09:51 AM
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30th November 2004, 10:37 PM
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In India divorce cases are more in marriages arranged by elders. Dowry problem is also more in marriages arranged by elders.
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30th November 2004, 10:44 PM
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Originally Posted by
mandangi
In India divorce cases are more in marriages arranged by elders. Dowry problem is also more in marriages arranged by elders.
Agreed about the dowry thing but the first I doubt.
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1st December 2004, 01:05 AM
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1st December 2004, 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted by
Sandeep
Agreed about the dowry thing but the first I doubt.
In India dowry problem is high. But in cases of love marriages dowry problem is less. One of my known person harassed his wife to bring money from her home even their marriage is love marriage. But such problem is not seen in more of the love marriage cases.
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1st December 2004, 09:15 AM
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is that all you want to say on this issue Mandangi?
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