MARRIAGE ...Aspects & PROBLEMS.!

[MADDY]

the whole system of Indian marriages is flawed

Arranged Marriages:

Girl/ her family are looking for a boy with Good job,decent background/family, onsite/offshore - ..........so, the girl invariably tells a "yes" if the guy is in a good position - - in my case - all the position,salary that i have achieved now is all bcos of my dad......any person studying in decent school, decent environment,good college with millions of coaching classes - will obviously reach where i have - nuthing great........but there are somethings exclusive to me - which the girl shuld ideally like and tell a yes......adhellam enga - .......i dont want a girl to marry me bcos i work in a MNC ...........imagine a Maniratnam/ARR bashing girl, as my wife, who married me for just my company - my life will be crippled .........arranged marriages are way too kiddish even now.....the process of selection shuld mature......

Love Marriages:

Ideal for me - but girls seem to have a hatred for good guys with very strong ideologies - nowadays girls/guys want a good popcorn than a healthy meal.........when they apply the same logic to marriage partners, it goes horribly wrong..... ..........atleast, yes, love marriages is not all about money.career like arranged marriages - again, the decision making power of girls/guys have to mature.......also, the ugly caste/religion equations lying beneath ........its way too complex to decipher ....but yea, u cant adjust with mutually opposite cultures..........imagine, u praying sun and ur wife praying moon ......

ultimately, its people who have to mature and stabilise the process of marriages in India - .....so i'm waiting ....