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14th August 2006, 12:58 AM
#101
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Originally Posted by
Sanguine Sridhar
Marriage gives you security,happiness,relations,enjoyment,sadness etc., Idhu thaaney vaazhkai!
Security is the only reason to stay married. All other factors are present in a live-in arrangement too. Infact, if there was a legal security to live-in system, marriage would become superflous. Many would be happy to live-in if we had the societal and legal approval to such an arrangement. I respect the UK lawmakers in this regard for trying to put in place a system, whereby live-in partners have legal protection too.
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14th August 2006 12:58 AM
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14th August 2006, 01:57 AM
#102
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Originally Posted by
shalushalu
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Originally Posted by
shalushalu
Originally Posted by
pavalamani pragasam
Support for 'living together trend' is being canvassed here!
Ha Ha Ha ...
Shalu,
Ennaga ithu! Tamizh pada villain maathiri bayankaramaa sirikkiReenga!
Aama Temporary Sori-Observer .... apadi patta siripu thaan varathu .... enna seiya ???
Shalu,
Person 1: Aise kyon haste ho?
Person 2: Shalu endhina bayankaramaayittu chirichchu?
Person 3: You are laughing loud!
Person 4: Ennanga ithu? villain maathiri oru sirippu?
Ethu nadakkumO athu nanRaagavE nadakkum.
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14th August 2006, 04:06 AM
#103
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14th August 2006, 04:06 AM
#104
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14th August 2006, 07:22 AM
#105
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There has been a big misunderstanding that marriage keeps security of a relationship. Let us remember that mindset of the two persons determine whether their relationship is secure or not.
Even if two people are married through a ritual, it does not give guarantee that their mindsets will be free from other relationships. To keep a relationship secure one does not need a marriage ritual or ceremony..all they need is mutual understanding, the knowing of what is right and wrong and love...without these three..even if you do marry through a ritual or ceremony the possibilities of multiple relationships or illegal affairs are very high.
Another thing we must remember is that marriage ceremonies were created by humans not god. If god had created marriage rituals and things like thalis etc the husband or wife might have been punished if they try to go astray by divine interventions. So far no such thing has happened and it shows clearly that its the mindset of the husband or wife that decides such things.
An advice to all people who want to have a secure relationship for life: Make sure both of you love each other and mutually understand each other if not having a secure relationship is a goner. Love and understanding builds secure relationships not marriage rituals and ceremonies.
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19th August 2006, 04:47 AM
#106
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19th August 2006, 04:49 AM
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19th August 2006, 06:45 AM
#108
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""Love and understanding builds secure relationships not marriage rituals and ceremonies""
Fantastic Hulkster..
Really agree with you..
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19th August 2006, 09:17 AM
#109
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Yet, they add colour & magic to memories which will come in handy when the going gets tough Who does not love fun & merriment? Parading & feasting? Happy get together of kith & kin? :P
Eager to watch the trends of the world & to nurture in the youth who carry the future world on their shoulders a right sense of values.
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19th August 2006, 10:36 AM
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